{"id":11206,"date":"2014-04-27T18:24:37","date_gmt":"2014-04-27T18:24:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/04\/27\/a-word-about-bronies\/"},"modified":"2014-04-27T18:24:37","modified_gmt":"2014-04-27T18:24:37","slug":"a-word-about-bronies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/04\/27\/a-word-about-bronies\/","title":{"rendered":"A word about bronies."},"content":{"rendered":"

bigangry<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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patrickat<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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kick-neckbeard-ass<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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sugarsuites<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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kick-neckbeard-ass<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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saintcheshire<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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So I just got back last night from a brony convention in San Francisco. I was working a booth for a vendor friend, and let me tell you what happened:<\/p>\n

We met a little girl who was there with her family. She got a button drawn at our booth, told us all about her favorite ponies, and was overall just too damn cute. She had an MLP lanyard filled with pins she\u2019d gotten in the vendor\u2019s room, and gave me a Fluttershy pin because she liked my cosplay. She ended up just hanging out with us for a while and bein\u2019 super cute. We call her Babby because she\u2019s 11 and precious.<\/p>\n

The next day, she runs up to the booth, terrified, and asks if she can please hide under our table for a few minutes. Turns out a dude had been following her around the con all day, and tried to get her to come up to his hotel room. Alone. She tells us she thought he was okay at first because he was wearing an MLP shirt, but she didn\u2019t want to go anywhere with him, and he made her uneasy. At one point, after she\u2019d refused, he grabbed her arm in the elevators and tried to get her to follow him. She ran, and now she wants somewhere to hide.<\/p>\n

We tell her of course, hurry her behind our booth and fucking station ourselves<\/em> around her because she\u2019s eleven years old<\/em><\/strong> and all of us are prepared to physically attack the human trashheap who tries to fuck with her. We\u2019re all dressed up in wings and ears and we\u2019re 100000% prepared to rip them off and launch across that table to defend this kid. Eventually this very large dude strolls by, very obviously looking around, and she quietly points him out to us. At this point I\u2019m ready to set him on fire, but when I ask if she needs me to go report him, she shakes her head. She doesn\u2019t want to get in trouble, or make anyone mad.<\/p>\n

We see him a few more times over the course of the day, because he keeps meandering over to our booth and just casually looking around. Eventually he actually stops to take a flier from our table and asks us a question, and we coldly send him on his way. We start sending a coworker with Babby whenever her parents aren\u2019t around and she wants to go check out artist\u2019s alley or the vendor\u2019s hall. Because otherwise she\u2019s not safe<\/em>. She can\u2019t run around and freely enjoy a convention about a show aimed at her<\/em>, because instead of being surrounded by peers she\u2019s somehow surrounded by men who pose a threat to her.<\/p>\n

My point here:<\/strong> this is why I fucking hate \u201cbronies.\u201d Because grown-ass men are flooding into a space carved out for children<\/strong>\u2014often little girls\u2014and are making it unsafe for them.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I met a lot of non-awful people there, of course. I met a lot of parents and older siblings. A lot of adorable little boys who were happy to empathize with female characters, and a lot of little kids who wanted a picture with cosplays of their favorite pony. I met a lot of people who were cool and nice and just liked cartoons. I met a male Pinkie Pie cosplayer with a Fluttershy lady-friend who juggled and spun plates and was happy to entertain kids, and were generally just really cool people.<\/p>\n

But I also met a lot of skeevy dudebros. A lot of guys in fedoras loudly discussing sexual shit in a room with children. Guys who drew\/sold\/displayed really fucking inappropriate \u201cfanart,\u201d including gross bodypillows that had no purpose in a little kids\u2019 toy convention. I met a guy who gushed with absolute glee<\/em> about the pleasure he derives from \u201ccorrupting innocence.\u201d I met a lot of people who wanted to take something sweet and nice for children and make it about THEM. A lot of guys who wanted to make it about their dicks.\u00a0<\/em>People who made it UNSAFE<\/strong> for the intended audience to even be in attendance.<\/p>\n

So yeah. If you call yourself a brony, I\u2019m prolly not gonna trust you. Because I\u2019ve seen y\u2019all in action, and I am not impressed. Frankly I\u2019m infuriated. This is like a bunch of gross neckbeards swarming Disneyland and shoving kids out of the way so they can grope Cinderella, and finding nothing wrong with it because they think they\u2019re entitled to it.<\/p>\n

My Little Pony is a really cute show with a lot of nice messages for kids, and gross brony shitweasels are trying to fucking take it from them by force<\/em>. And I will fight them.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Also, this story has been corroborated by the 4chan news site for \/mlp\/ (barf) which found proof from the booth owner\/Sac Anime rep that there was a little girl who took refuge at the booth that day: http:\/\/www.horse-news.net\/2014\/04\/advice-for-babscon-delete-facebook-hit_22.html?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=twitter<\/a><\/p>\n

Specific cap is here: http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-33DSepIPY_I\/U1bt46nsXyI\/AAAAAAAABbM\/QuLagzNWrNA\/s1600\/1398204976062.jpg<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I\u2019ve seen a shitton of people signal boost the fuck out of one version of this post with someone saying that this entire post is made up, when it\u2019s not. And that\u2019s really depressing.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

That\u2019s exactly what they said last year, when Mjolkk talked about the harassment she witnessed at EFNW.<\/p>\n

Bronies will literally lie about their fandom to make it look better. They will lie about\u00a0anything.<\/em> Do not trust anything they say without facts to back it up.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Seems worth noting that the only fallout from this has been that BABSCon has banned Sac Anime from their convention<\/a> for not having reported this incident to con security when it was happening.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

On the one hand, I understand banning Sac Anime for not reporting it, because the predator brony is still on the loose. On the other hand, I think they didn\u2019t report it, and the parents didn\u2019t report it, because they wanted to spare the daughter trauma. It\u2019s still not the right decision to not report it, because, once again, the predator brony is STILL out there, even now, especially when the Sac Anime people could describe the predator brony.<\/p>\n

I dunno, man.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Speaking as someone who helps run a convention, and has engaged in the discussions of ‘what the hell do we do about this so-and-so who is messing it up for other people’ — I do not envy them the discussion that led to that decision.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

bigangry: patrickat: kick-neckbeard-ass: sugarsuites: kick-neckbeard-ass: saintcheshire: So I just got back last night from a brony convention in San Francisco. I was working a booth for a vendor friend, and let me tell you what happened: We met a little girl who was there with her family. She got a button drawn at our booth, … Continue reading A word about bronies.<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1057,51],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11206"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11206"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11206\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}