{"id":19197,"date":"2013-12-08T05:40:03","date_gmt":"2013-12-08T05:40:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2013\/12\/08\/youre-a-good-writer-and-seem-like-a-good-friend\/"},"modified":"2013-12-08T05:40:03","modified_gmt":"2013-12-08T05:40:03","slug":"youre-a-good-writer-and-seem-like-a-good-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2013\/12\/08\/youre-a-good-writer-and-seem-like-a-good-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re a good writer and seem like a good friend to those who you&#8217;re close to. But you get passive aggressive. And that hurts people. Indirectly bashing other peoples&#8217; ships is not cool; indirectly guilting people for not RPing with you is even less cool. I know it sucks when it seems like no one has muse for \/your\/ muse. I know. But making others feel bad because of that isn&#8217;t kind. This isn&#8217;t meant to be hate in any way, but you wanted to know what I think of you so."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Because gods forbid I should feel left out, or lonely, or upset. Gods forbid \/I\/ should have feelings. It\u2019s completely okay for other people to guilt \/me\/ for asking to be replied to, or these days even thinking about asking to be replied to. It\u2019s completely okay for people like you to make me feel bad for being lonely.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s completely okay for you to make me feel bad for wishing anywhere it could possibly be seen that the people who complain about wanting more threads and that no one ever plays with them would just remember that they have a thread with me, and reply to it.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s completely okay for you to make me feel bad, because after all, roleplay is a \/solitary\/ pastime. It doesn\u2019t involve anyone but yourself. It\u2019s just you, and the muse, and the screen, and the story, so it\u2019s completely okay to just walk away from it, because nobody else could possibly be hurt; it\u2019s a solitary escape from the world.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Because gods forbid I should feel left out, or lonely, or upset. Gods forbid \/I\/ should have feelings. It\u2019s completely okay for other people to guilt \/me\/ for asking to be replied to, or these days even thinking about asking to be replied to. It\u2019s completely okay for people like you to make me feel &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2013\/12\/08\/youre-a-good-writer-and-seem-like-a-good-friend\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">You&#8217;re a good writer and seem like a good friend to those who you&#8217;re close to. But you get passive aggressive. And that hurts people. Indirectly bashing other peoples&#8217; ships is not cool; indirectly guilting people for not RPing with you is even less cool. I know it sucks when it seems like no one has muse for \/your\/ muse. I know. But making others feel bad because of that isn&#8217;t kind. This isn&#8217;t meant to be hate in any way, but you wanted to know what I think of you so.<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[4,109,63,2],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19197"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19197"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19197\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19197"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19197"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19197"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}