{"id":20957,"date":"2013-11-12T23:48:51","date_gmt":"2013-11-12T23:48:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2013\/11\/12\/how-do-you-know-they-blocked-you\/"},"modified":"2013-11-12T23:48:51","modified_gmt":"2013-11-12T23:48:51","slug":"how-do-you-know-they-blocked-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2013\/11\/12\/how-do-you-know-they-blocked-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you know they blocked you?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you follow someone, and notice one day they no longer seem to appear on your dashboard &#8212; you would go check their tumblr directly, right? Maybe they&#8217;re taking a break and you missed the announcement, maybe something happened while you were asleep.<\/p>\n<p>And then you see that no, they made a post just a minute ago, and it&#8217;s not showing up on your dash &#8212; so you check the +\/- sign, and no, you&#8217;re still following, so then you check your options, maybe you hit something on accident &#8212;<\/p>\n<p>No. It&#8217;s them. They&#8217;ve blocked you.<\/p>\n<p>I do notice these things. When I follow someone, it&#8217;s a conscious choice, I don&#8217;t fill up my dash with people I&#8217;m not interested in, and when they stop appearing, I wonder. I worry. I check.<\/p>\n<p>I had always, always rather, if someone wants nothing to do with me, to be told it, than wonder &#8216;what have I done?&#8217;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you follow someone, and notice one day they no longer seem to appear on your dashboard &#8212; you would go check their tumblr directly, right? Maybe they&#8217;re taking a break and you missed the announcement, maybe something happened while you were asleep. And then you see that no, they made a post just a &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2013\/11\/12\/how-do-you-know-they-blocked-you\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">How do you know they blocked you?<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[4,2],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20957"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20957"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20957\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20957"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20957"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20957"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}