{"id":26279,"date":"2013-07-08T23:38:17","date_gmt":"2013-07-08T23:38:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2013\/07\/08\/thefluffyromantic-iamthefirechild-thats\/"},"modified":"2013-07-08T23:38:17","modified_gmt":"2013-07-08T23:38:17","slug":"thefluffyromantic-iamthefirechild-thats","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2013\/07\/08\/thefluffyromantic-iamthefirechild-thats\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/thefluffyromantic.tumblr.com\/post\/54952076537\/iamthefirechild-thats-not-at-all-what-i\">thefluffyromantic<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/iamthefirechild.tumblr.com\/post\/54951849520\/thefluffyromantic-iamthefirechild\">iamthefirechild<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span>&#8220;That\u2019s not at all what I meant! I meant \u2026 only, you said I needed someone to dedicate themselves to me, and that \u2014 I didn\u2019t know I was that selfish. I don\u2019t mean to be. I\u2019m trying to understand what you\u2019re saying so I can be a better person in general; I\u2019m not trying to change your mind.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;You are not selfish, what I meant by that was that he wouldn\u2019t put his work before you. I would. I love my work, it is my dedication. You need someone to love you before anything else, and I can\u2019t. And that isn\u2019t selfishness that is a relationship.&#8221; He sighed, rubbing his temples. \u201cIt also doesn\u2019t help that I am more into the male gender than female, dear.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;But &#8230; that&#8217;s not what I want. I don&#8217;t &#8212; I shouldn&#8217;t &#8212; &#8221; She flailed a hand, frustrated at her inability to put words around her thoughts. &#8220;R&#8212;&#8221; She cleared her throat. &#8220;Robert said that he was a person who would pay attention to me. Is that what you mean?&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>thefluffyromantic: iamthefirechild: &#8220;That\u2019s not at all what I meant! I meant \u2026 only, you said I needed someone to dedicate themselves to me, and that \u2014 I didn\u2019t know I was that selfish. I don\u2019t mean to be. I\u2019m trying to understand what you\u2019re saying so I can be a better person in general; I\u2019m &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2013\/07\/08\/thefluffyromantic-iamthefirechild-thats\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\"><\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[10,2223],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26279"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26279"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26279\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}