I’m just amazingly tired of tumblr people treating online rp as though it’s some kind of solitary pastime. As though it’s somehow different from inviting people to hang out with you in real life, and standing them up or cutting them off or outright ignoring them after they’ve shown up.<\/p>\n
Gah, I promised myself I wouldn’t engage with this frustration tonight.<\/p>\n
Sorry, nonnie, it’s not you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
I’m just amazingly tired of tumblr people treating online rp as though it’s some kind of solitary pastime. As though it’s somehow different from inviting people to hang out with you in real life, and standing them up or cutting them off or outright ignoring them after they’ve shown up. Gah, I promised myself I … Continue reading I just know from experience there are always two sides. Yes, of course it’s okay to block and ignore people. But when you do it without even bothering to give them a reason or communicate and use the excuse – only my feelings matter and I have to do only what’s best for me – it causes a lot of hurt and drama. Many muns actually use passive aggressive posts and the silent treatment as a way to get people to take the hint about what is wrong so they can put the full blame on you.<\/span>