{"id":33636,"date":"2012-09-25T21:16:50","date_gmt":"2012-09-25T21:16:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2012\/09\/25\/am-i-then-to-infer-that-there-is-no-longer-to-be\/"},"modified":"2012-09-25T21:16:50","modified_gmt":"2012-09-25T21:16:50","slug":"am-i-then-to-infer-that-there-is-no-longer-to-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2012\/09\/25\/am-i-then-to-infer-that-there-is-no-longer-to-be\/","title":{"rendered":"Am I, then, to infer that there is no longer to be \/any\/ interaction between us? Am I unofficially removed from the roleplay? Had someone else been assigned to tell me that and simply not logged on yet? Forgive me, but I hadn&#8217;t thought that relieving you of my personal problems meant cut-off of all contact whatsoever. I&#8217;m sorry if I&#8217;m a little confused."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Obviously, tumblr doesn&#8217;t tell you the timing of when someone unfollows you. I chose to stop following you right after you posted that &#8230; whatever it was that basically called me out for trying to help you. That hurt. I can&#8217;t afford to put myself in that line of fire. As much as I help myself by helping others, there comes a time when the pain it causes me outweighs the good it does me, and the selfish way you lash about causes a lot of pain.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know what you were thinking when you posted it. It apparently vanished a little while later, but I&#8217;d already seen it. I don&#8217;t even know if you meant me to see it. Whatever your motivations were, at this point, don&#8217;t matter.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll still roleplay with you. If you were removed from the roleplay, I would tell you immediately, and myself. But I can&#8217;t actually expose myself any more to someone who &#8230; not only active rejects everything I have to say, but does so in a way calculated to hurt and draw attention.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m posting this answer publicly, because I don&#8217;t want to lose what I had to say and be misquoted later, and because I don&#8217;t, ever, do things in the dark, behind backs.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Obviously, tumblr doesn&#8217;t tell you the timing of when someone unfollows you. I chose to stop following you right after you posted that &#8230; whatever it was that basically called me out for trying to help you. That hurt. I can&#8217;t afford to put myself in that line of fire. As much as I help &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2012\/09\/25\/am-i-then-to-infer-that-there-is-no-longer-to-be\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Am I, then, to infer that there is no longer to be \/any\/ interaction between us? Am I unofficially removed from the roleplay? Had someone else been assigned to tell me that and simply not logged on yet? Forgive me, but I hadn&#8217;t thought that relieving you of my personal problems meant cut-off of all contact whatsoever. I&#8217;m sorry if I&#8217;m a little confused.<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[414,4168],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33636"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33636"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33636\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33636"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33636"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33636"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}