{"id":35363,"date":"2012-08-02T01:47:00","date_gmt":"2012-08-02T01:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2012\/08\/02\/i-feel-owe-this-somehow-i-hate-that-feeling\/"},"modified":"2012-08-02T01:47:00","modified_gmt":"2012-08-02T01:47:00","slug":"i-feel-owe-this-somehow-i-hate-that-feeling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2012\/08\/02\/i-feel-owe-this-somehow-i-hate-that-feeling\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I feel owe this, somehow. I hate that feeling. Just scroll if you don&#8217;t care.<\/p>\n<p>I majored in English. I majored in English to be a writer and an editor. Spelling and grammar are, literally, instinctive for me, and I can easily be turned off of someone&#8217;s writing if those instincts get aroused.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not looking at your writing checking for mistakes. But I do see them. I can&#8217;t \/ignore\/ them, in my own mind. Usually, when I&#8217;m roleplaying with someone, I silently correct errors, and move on. When I point out a mistake, although this is damn hard to convey in type, I \/am\/ trying to be polite, helpful, and gentle. I do \/not\/ comment on any mistake in spelling or grammar to make someone feel bad. I \/know\/ very few people have my ability in this area, and I&#8217;d really rather not \/be\/ reminded of all the reasons why people hate me, thanks all the same. I&#8217;m not trying to demonstrate how much better I am, or how much you suck: I genuinely want to help you.<\/p>\n<p>If wanting to help people, albeit clumsily as text enforces, is a mistake, I&#8217;ll &#8230; take the risk and continue to make that mistake. I&#8217;ll issue sincere apologies as needed to people whom I hurt, and the rest of you &#8230; well, basically you can go jump off a cliff with your assumptions about my motivations.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I feel owe this, somehow. I hate that feeling. Just scroll if you don&#8217;t care. I majored in English. I majored in English to be a writer and an editor. Spelling and grammar are, literally, instinctive for me, and I can easily be turned off of someone&#8217;s writing if those instincts get aroused. I&#8217;m not &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2012\/08\/02\/i-feel-owe-this-somehow-i-hate-that-feeling\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\"><\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[4479,4480,4477,3633,2,106],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35363"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35363"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35363\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}