{"id":5373,"date":"2014-08-26T16:38:40","date_gmt":"2014-08-26T16:38:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/08\/26\/check-out-iamthefirechild-cuz-not-only-is-she-a\/"},"modified":"2014-08-26T16:38:40","modified_gmt":"2014-08-26T16:38:40","slug":"check-out-iamthefirechild-cuz-not-only-is-she-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/08\/26\/check-out-iamthefirechild-cuz-not-only-is-she-a\/","title":{"rendered":"check out iamthefirechild, cuz not only is she a horrible, whiney person, but her starters are shitty. look through her open rp tag and u&#8217;ll see which ones i mean."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/shittystarters.tumblr.com\/post\/95752541260\/check-out-iamthefirechild-cuz-not-only-is-she-a\">shittystarters<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>I don\u2019t have to look through her starters to despise her.<\/p>\n<p>I think that, honestly, the first thing I will do when I get back to my main, is block her. I recognize that url, and I have been warned of her actions already. I scrolled through her tag of publicly calling people out, and I am not impressed in the slightest. She throws herself into drama and expects people to just bow down to her. She completely disregards every rule, saying that \u2018we\u2019ve roleplayed for a while already I don\u2019t have to read your rules\u2019, which is complete bologna. Everyone\u2019s rules are there for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, it seems that everyone has an issue with her, whether it be from her complaining, to her clingy behavior, to her displays of her obvious lack of self control, whatever. She is the kind of blog that I cringe at, because she is the kind that puts OFC\u2019s to shame. She also complains a lot and tosses around the OFC excuse all the time when people stray away from her, which is pathetic and annoying. People aren\u2019t weary of you because of your OFC, they are weary because of how you ACT!<\/p>\n<p>I was faced with a situation like this twice. One muse was picking favorites because they were very dick-hungry and wanted to just throw their muse at the other muse for stupid ship fodder. Everyone was insulted and tried reasoning with them, and they used disorders as an excuse every time, and I got sick of it, and told them outright that they were being immature and unfair to everyone else. Because really, they weren\u2019t just ignoring ME, they ignored EVERYONE except their ship blog.<\/p>\n<p>The result? She tried to publicly shame my blog, which backfired overnight while I was asleep, for SEVERAL blogs and anons attacked her. She tried fishing for attention, and not even her ship blog defended her. THAT is how pathetic it was. Afterwards, I blocked her and moved on, as did many others, after realizing that she couldn\u2019t handle the truth being told to her. I have no clue what her blog is like now, since I was told she switched URLs out of shame, attempting to start over, but we all know by now what she is really like.<\/p>\n<p>The second issue had to do with a roleplayer that I REALLY got along with. We had a very good thread going, we did drabbles and ask memes and really liked each other\u2019s writing. However, I had to move from one country to another, let me reiterate,\u00a0<em>I had to move to another country.\u00a0<\/em>I asked them if they could give me a bit of time to settle in and get ready for college, since roleplaying was not the priority. I forgot their response, but I do remember them wishing me luck.<\/p>\n<p>Well, when I came back a week later, they said that it just wasn\u2019t the same anymore. A week had apparently changed them so much that the very thought of roleplaying with me was intimidating. They spewed a bunch of other excuses, and of course I got angry and asked them why and what the hell and if we would ever get back to that groove again, and she said yes, we could. So I tried\u2026and when I say I tried, I was the only one trying. I was ignored and brushed off all the time until finally, I just gave up and moved on. If they won\u2019t treat me with respect, I won\u2019t treat them with respect.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s just it. There was no public humiliation, there was no bullshit, I just grew up and moved on.<\/p>\n<p>Now, if the fire child girl could learn this stuff, I am sure she would be much better off. That, and she needs to eat some humble pie and learn that not everything is about her. I have seen her posts where she just throws herself in a situation and bad mouths everyone, and it is very distasteful. Haven\u2019t you ever heard of CLASS, my dear?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>No, she hasn\u2019t. You can tell because of the hissy fits she throws every time something doesn\u2019t go her way. She needs to get over herself and also improve her muse. She is a complete Mary Sue, not to mention that the mun stated, several times, these two statements:<\/p>\n<p><em>1.) I am not my muse! We are totally different!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>2.) My muse is based off of me!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Consistency, child. And to think that you are in your thirties! Not to mention the way you reacted when someone apologized to you for whatever they did to hurt you, and all you did was moan and complain that yes, they apologized, but they weren\u2019t going to give the roleplay back, which means you didn\u2019t forgive them, which ultimately resulted in you making references to bleeding and self harm and all of this emo shit that, for some reason, people think is so edgy and emotional and gets results.<\/p>\n<p>But it isn\u2019t edgy. It\u2019s seeking attention. I have dealt with self harm and suicidal thoughts and attempts. Everyone knows that it is the silent ones you need to watch out for. When people start throwing those terms around, it becomes annoying and people will just hate you faster.<\/p>\n<p>Seriously, either grow up and act your age and stop shoving your Mary Sue in people\u2019s faces, or get off of the internet and REALLY act your age.<\/p>\n<p>In your THIRTIES. My god\u2026<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>shittystarters: I don\u2019t have to look through her starters to despise her. I think that, honestly, the first thing I will do when I get back to my main, is block her. I recognize that url, and I have been warned of her actions already. I scrolled through her tag of publicly calling people out, &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/08\/26\/check-out-iamthefirechild-cuz-not-only-is-she-a\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">check out iamthefirechild, cuz not only is she a horrible, whiney person, but her starters are shitty. look through her open rp tag and u&#8217;ll see which ones i mean.<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5373"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5373"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5373\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5373"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5373"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5373"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}