{"id":7074,"date":"2014-07-22T23:21:15","date_gmt":"2014-07-22T23:21:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/07\/22\/im-so-angry-right-now-im-shaking-the-fastest\/"},"modified":"2014-07-22T23:21:15","modified_gmt":"2014-07-22T23:21:15","slug":"im-so-angry-right-now-im-shaking-the-fastest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/07\/22\/im-so-angry-right-now-im-shaking-the-fastest\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m so angry right now I’m shaking. The fastest way to piss me off is to make a lot of assumptions about me and my muse and then prevent me from addressing any of those concerns.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Irritatingly, my outbox didn’t save my reply. I first commented that they didn’t have to be friends, then said it was fine, I was used to it because of Summer being a female OC.<\/p>\n

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Now I’m blocked. Which is insulting. Yes, let’s spew out a lot of godmod assumptions about what my muse did and what I meant, then deny me the chance to reply in any sort of reasonable fashion. I’m incredibly impressed with the maturity here.<\/p>\n

That is the behaviour that drives me to make responses, reactions, and commentary public. A person who behaves like that cannot be trusted to be honest when the situation comes up again, and if they’ve cut off my ability to work it out privately I refuse to sit quietly and be slandered.<\/p>\n

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  1. Nowhere in that BRIEF series of asks did I say Summer touched him. She said it looked like he needed a hug — which I copied directly from the list of ‘send me an ask here are some starters’ that Rae posted. There was nothing else on that list that looked like anything Summer would say to a stranger — but she would offer a hug to anyone whom she thought needed one.<\/li>\n
  2. She’s not allowed to be shocked by such a sharp response? She’s supposed to apologise for offering a hug to someone?\u00a0<\/li>\n
  3. I don’t know about you, but I’d be wary of someone whose response to me was to threaten to eat me.<\/li>\n
  4. If you’re going to be ugly to me and make assumptions, the least you can do is spell my name right.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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