{"id":8481,"date":"2014-06-25T19:26:45","date_gmt":"2014-06-25T19:26:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/06\/25\/fucking-cis-people-tho\/"},"modified":"2014-06-25T19:26:45","modified_gmt":"2014-06-25T19:26:45","slug":"fucking-cis-people-tho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/06\/25\/fucking-cis-people-tho\/","title":{"rendered":"fucking cis people tho"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/kissofmistletoe.tumblr.com\/post\/89884341603\">kissofmistletoe<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>((No.<\/p>\n<p>No \u2018fucking\u2019 anything. Unless in a literal sense of sex, then feel free, as long as they consent.<\/p>\n<p>But, anyway. There is no fucking hate here, for <em>anyone<\/em>. Do not hate someone simply for something they <strong>cannot<\/strong> change. Cisgendered, transgendered, asexual, heterosexual, homosexual, pansexual, abled, disabled, Catholic, Muslim, atheist, agnostic, THERE IS NO FUCKING NEED.<\/p>\n<p>What you are saying when you say \u2018fucking cis people tho\u2019 is actually just \u2018fucking dickhead people tho\u2019. To which you, dear anon, fall into the category of.<\/p>\n<p>What is the point hating someone for something they are, most likely, born with? People who feel in the wrong sex body, people whose bodies don\u2019t work well, people who like the same bodied people as them, it\u2019s not something anyone decided one day that \u2018actually, I want to be like them\u2019. You are some dislike for someone who has no choice on the matter because, actually, this is who they fucking are, and no shitty piece of disgustingly uttered words will change that.<\/p>\n<p>You might as well swear at the Himalayas for being too fucking tall.<strong> It. will. do. nothing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But this is Tumblr, this is the world. There are +does a quick research+ probably 30 million-50 million people on this website. There are 7 billion people upon this little planet. That\u2019s an awful number of people and, no, you are never going to get everybody to like each other. Even in a group of twenty or so people, there will be dissent. It\u2019s human nature, it\u2019s the way it works.<\/p>\n<p>And when enough people don\u2019t like something, it becomes a hatred.<\/p>\n<p>And enough hatred becomes violence.<\/p>\n<p>And those who choose to violently act against another person who has thoughts, feelings, dreams, emotions, wants, dislikes, loves, fingers, toes, eyes, genitalia (whether any of these work or whatever), hair in various places, that you, dear human being, are an arse hole.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Do not hate people for who they are. Do not hate people for a colour they couldn\u2019t choose in the womb, or a love that is still as strong no matter whether the receiver is a boy, girl, neutral, transgender. Do not hate people because their bodies are degrading faster than your own, or their mind is wired to a different gear as yours.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>They didn\u2019t choose to be this way, whether for better or for worse.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, hate those that actively <em>choose<\/em> to be arseholes. Hate the Hitlers, the Putins, the Stalins. Hate those who have a question and answer it with the most violent answer possible. Hate those who wish harm on another, because one day that hate could change with the wind and swing towards you, and you will find out how unpleasant this bullshit can be if you\u2019re the one showered in hate.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Do not be ashamed if you don\u2019t like something. If two girls kissing creeps you out, or a man having an epileptic fit makes you scared of how violent our bodies can be when they turn on us. There are enough people in the world to help those you do not like and thus life can be wonderful for everyone.<\/p>\n<p>But do not, ever, strike out at someone because you do not like their lifestyles.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Do not ever harm someone in the name of hate because then you become that dickwad. You are not a \u2018saviour of the human race\u2019. Your shitty words are not \u2018just saying what everyone is thinking\u2019.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You are a cunt, and there is no simpler word for it.<\/p>\n<p>Accept, forget, forgive. We\u2019re all capable of it. Feel free to say you don\u2019t like something, but in a rational, empathic sense, as an atheist might to a Christian. There is no reason why you cannot.<\/p>\n<p>Accept other people are not of the same mind as you.<\/p>\n<p>Forget you saw it.<\/p>\n<p>And forgive yourself your deeper feelings for why it is so horrific to you.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And then you can carry on with your life, and if everyone should do that, maybe there\u2019ll be no need to have such vast communities like this split up by simple, meaningless labels.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re all people. Lets act like it, and not the animals we are now.))<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>kissofmistletoe: ((No. No \u2018fucking\u2019 anything. Unless in a literal sense of sex, then feel free, as long as they consent. But, anyway. There is no fucking hate here, for anyone. Do not hate someone simply for something they cannot change. Cisgendered, transgendered, asexual, heterosexual, homosexual, pansexual, abled, disabled, Catholic, Muslim, atheist, agnostic, THERE IS NO &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/2014\/06\/25\/fucking-cis-people-tho\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">fucking cis people tho<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[51],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8481"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8481"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8481\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8481"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8481"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.firechildren.net\/lightfire\/iamthefirechild\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8481"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}