Obviously, tumblr doesn’t tell you the timing of when someone unfollows you. I chose to stop following you right after you posted that … whatever it was that basically called me out for trying to help you. That hurt. I can’t afford to put myself in that line of fire. As much as I help myself by helping others, there comes a time when the pain it causes me outweighs the good it does me, and the selfish way you lash about causes a lot of pain.

I don’t know what you were thinking when you posted it. It apparently vanished a little while later, but I’d already seen it. I don’t even know if you meant me to see it. Whatever your motivations were, at this point, don’t matter.

I’ll still roleplay with you. If you were removed from the roleplay, I would tell you immediately, and myself. But I can’t actually expose myself any more to someone who … not only active rejects everything I have to say, but does so in a way calculated to hurt and draw attention.

I’m posting this answer publicly, because I don’t want to lose what I had to say and be misquoted later, and because I don’t, ever, do things in the dark, behind backs.