I think you’re a little condescending and egotistic. You demand too much, have too many rules and expectations of people and are prickly and easily annoyed by too many things. Maybe it’s the fact that you’re older and assume younger muns are immature. but it’s pretentious. It’s also odd to see you react so vehemently and aggressively and then wonder why people stop following you or are wary of being open around you. for all your “talk to me” you’re not very down to earth or approachable.