PLEASE BE CAREFUL IF YOU CHOOSE TO RP WITH IAMTHEFIRECHILD. I am not saying do not RP with her, I am not saying do not follow her, I am simply saying be careful if you choose to because she is KNOWN to cause issues with multiple people and has caused several users to delete and/or archive their blogs and some even leave tumblr permanently. She is known to use her mental illness as an excuse for guilting their partners and causing them problems (she literally has an entire tag dedicated to this as though it is something to be proud of). I’ve compiled a lot of links of the things that she’s said and done to people unnecessarily and how they’ve caused other’s harm. She prides herself on “calling other RPers out” but what she’s actually doing is throwing a fit when they don’t get their way. She constantly causes drama and harasses other users under the pretense that they have somehow wronged her when really they haven’t done much of anything. It’s so bad that I know with utmost certainty that several users have deleted or archived their blogs and some have even left tumblr permanently. She acts very nice at first but the second something goes wrong it’s all downhill from there. She messages people with extremely rude things on and off anon despite claiming in her rules that she doesn’t send hate. Several users have compiled evidence of this but she has even CLAIMED THE EVIDENCE AS TRUTH AND USED IT AS EVIDENCE THAT PEOPLE HAVE WRONGED HER. I think she may be delusional and I do not say this lightly or to demean her, I mean I legitimately believe that she is experiencing a delusion, she thinks that things that are obviously detrimental to her image are evidence towards people harming her, which makes so little sense. She also has a tendency to make light of and undermine issues by blurring the lines of IC and OOC, I know her character is partially a self insert, but she will take OOC issues and inject them into IC situations and does so in a way that undermines the severity of an issue OOC. I don’t know about others but that blurred line makes me extremely uncomfortable personally and I know others have expressed ill feelings towards that concept as well. Anyway, here are the links to things that you might want to see before you decide to RP with her:
[incidents with her guilting others over blocking/unfollowing her [1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6]]
[blurring the lines between ic and ooc and “calling someone out” for it]
[more guilting (over replies among other things) [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8]]
[using her illness as an excuse as well as calling people out tag]
[extremely rude messages asking people to “unfollow her” [1] [2]]
[making someone feel worse when they’re already in a low state [part 2 (friend’s response to her actions)]]
There is a lot more evidence I could link you to, but those are some of the ones that stick out the most and that are most present on her blog. Please be careful those of you that want to roleplay or follow her! These are some things to keep in mind. Her actions have not ceased no matter what she says, she has not changed, she is doing this constantly and consistently and I would hate to see more people get hurt over her actions.
Thank you for you time, I hope this is okay for me to submit.