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But I just know from experience what it’s like to have people cut you off without giving you a reason OR when people give you the reason when it’s to late. For example, a mun will silently be frustrated about something but never bring it up and eventually because they never communicated their anger will have built up. They’ll send you the reason BUT then block you right after, allowing themselves the last word and not giving you any chance to say anything that’s why I get why you call people out

I just know from experience there are always two sides. Yes, of course it’s okay to block and ignore people. But when you do it without even bothering to give them a reason or communicate and use the excuse – only my feelings matter and I have to do only what’s best for me – it causes a lot of hurt and drama. Many muns actually use passive aggressive posts and the silent treatment as a way to get people to take the hint about what is wrong so they can put the full blame on you.

I’m just amazingly tired of tumblr people treating online rp as though it’s some kind of solitary pastime. As though it’s somehow different from inviting people to hang out with you in real life, and standing them up or cutting them off or outright ignoring them after they’ve shown up.

Gah, I promised myself I wouldn’t engage with this frustration tonight.

Sorry, nonnie, it’s not you.

Also I’ve noticed a huge trend in the RP community with a focus on only yourself and no one else. The trend is it’s okay to ignore people without telling them why, it’s okay to ignore people who ask if they want to roleplay instead of politely turning them down… it’s okay to not think of the other human being on the other side of the computer because only you matter. The result is actually a lot more ooc drama because people aren’t giving communication a chance because it’s the best for them.

… it’s like you’re reading my mind. Were you hiding in my kitchen this afternoon?

I just wanted to say I actually understand where you’re coming from. I’ve had experiences where people suddenly started ignoring me without telling me why. A lot of people have had this happen to them actually. Sometimes there is a good reason but in many cases misunderstandings happen when people don’t communicate to each other or make assumptions that the other person should know what is wrong. I think communication should be attempted before cutting someone off.

You are an unusual anon. I’m keeping you.

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  Descendant of Iscariot, Son of a Coward.

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She pushed the hood back again to stare at him, embarrassment tinting her cheeks. Then she flung herself at him in a huge hug, radiating gratitude overwhelmingly.

ripyourthroatoutwithmyteeth:

iamthefirechild:

ripyourthroatoutwithmyteeth:

Derek was  a little startled at the sudden hug and rush of emotion, though he caught her and tentatively patted her back soothingly, still a tad bit stunned at the force of her gratitude but glad he could help and make someone feel so thankful.

Summer gave Derek the most sceptical expression she could muster and put up her hands, making pushing motions at the mug. It had been bitter and harsh and she felt like something had died in her mouth now. Acquiring another mug from the cabinet, she poked through the refrigerator, identifying a carton that looked promising — milk. After a long gulp to wash the taste of coffee out of her mouth, she looked up at Derek, licking at the milk mustache.

Derek just shrugged and poured her cup out, passing Isaac his. Isaac hummed at his coffee but then nearly choked on the second sip when he saw Summer’s milk mustache. Derek just laughed and kept moving around getting things ready to make food. “Well at least you’ve found something you like.”

Summer emerged from her mug again to stick her tongue out at Isaac, before padding off, trailing robe hem, to find her pad and pencil. ‘what today? I don’t know what to do here’.

Auction [just for stupid]

ripyourthroatoutwithmyteeth:

iamthefirechild:

ripyourthroatoutwithmyteeth:

Send “Auction” for your muse buying mine as their slave

Derek snarled lowly but kept his head down as he was transferred to the person that bought him, seeing a small female form before him now.

“Most of us are desperate to be free. We seize it and run. Or beg.” She ran her fingers through her short hair.

“You’re passive.” It made it hard /not/ to treat him as a slave. Autumn figured he was testing them, waiting to see if they kept their word. Summer was afraid he was too broken to be saved. They had those sometimes.

It usually took Summer a week to recover from what she saw as failure.

“I’m observative,” he corrected. It wasn’t much of a correction. He took in what was happening, and if he didn’t see an opportunity he wanted to take, he would wait. That would give off the passive air. 

“I get tired of running. I’ve been running. My whole life. Begging? Never got me anything. Got me tortured more often than not. No begging. Observing. Taking it in. Exploring for myself. And not approaching me with ‘You’re kinda free but you’re going to want to work for me, that or you get to go figure out how to live on your own after nearly 15 years in a slave market kay have fun’.” He had sunk down slowly against the wall until he was sitting, legs straight out in front of him. This day, as short as it had been, had already taken it all out of him. 

“You’ve enough spirit to snarl, but not take care of yourself.” Autumn leaned against the doorframe, watching him slump. “What do you want?”

fastestquickestmutant:

iamthefirechild:

“Are you going to expire in the time it takes for the pasta to cook?” Reaching out, she ruffled his hair before getting up. “Because if so, cookies.”

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“I just might.  It’s gonna be touch and go,” he said, crumpling up the empty cookie bag after he had used his speed to eat them all.  “What cookies.”

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She glanced back and spluttered a laugh. “Oh, Pietro. You’re going to eat me out of house and home.”