Okay, honestly; you need to back the fuck up. It is extremely immature to call someone out publicly – especially someone that you don’t even know? If it was a friend I could semi-understand it but honestly the two people in question had very little to do with you so your manner towards them is entirely uncalled for. Especially the patronising nature in which you addressed my friend about her age which in all honesty, I find completely comical. You state publicly that you are 32 years old and yet you act like an 8 year old or perhaps even a toddler throwing their toys out of the pram. IF someone unfollows you? Move on. If someone blocks you? Shrug and move on. Read a book. Go for a walk. There are bigger things in life.
Secondly, you seriously need to get your head out of your own arse.
In short: you had the problem with me first, and refused to be mature enough to come to me in private and say, “I don’t agree with you.”
Hello hypocrisy my old friend. Seriously? I made a post about triggers and you didn’t have the decency to come to me and be ‘mature enough’ to come to me in private and say ‘I don’t agree with you’. Treat people how you wish to be treated.
Instead, as far as I can tell, you complained in your high school clique and mutually silently agreed that I was no longer to exist, without so much as giving me a chance to explain anything, have a rational discussion, or even apologise, should I have wanted to.
Again. Head out of own arse. We have never discussed you in this ‘clique’ of ours until now when you decided to make a drama about something that could honestly have been overlooked. As you stated in your previous post —- this is the internet. Life doesn’t come with trigger warnings and like real life; not all people may like you. But a sure fire way to get them to permanently dislike you is to create drama like this and so publicly. Normally I wouldn’t call people out like this but you have seriously crossed the line.
All I can truly suggest to you is that you move on and think twice before you take people on about such a pathetic situation again. People owe you nothing.
This is the internet.
Grow up.
All this, of one post two days ago made out of frustration and hurt and entirely-too-vivid, decade-old memories.
If I am so very irrelevant, so unwanted, so ignored, how was it even found, under all the pictures and storytelling? It’s ten pages back, utterly untagged!
I don’t expect to be /liked/. But — how do I even phrase this so the words come clear — I expect to be treated with honesty. And there has been none here. At all.
I am not, and never will be, one of those people who is so fearful of the idea, of the word, drama. I feel what I feel, I see what I see, and I will say what I think. And it is more than fine if people do not agree. I wish them not to agree, and to talk to me about it, reserving their disdain for my ideas and not my self.
That’s not what I see happening here.
I had always, always rather folk come to me in honesty and say ‘I do not agree with you, and here is why’ or ‘what you are doing makes me uncomfortable, and here is why’ or even so ‘can you not, it is a problem for me’. I had always, always rather know.